Well, I did it. This is the first time I have gone on a second date since starting this little thing. After our first date Let Me Show You My Biceps and I sent several text messages back and forth about getting together again. Now, if you will remember my first blog about him I thought he was super dreamy and really wanted to see him again. So we agree to dinner and again the location was a very nice place. I was ON TIME!!! You know when I am on time it means something. I see him and I was speechless. He looked delicious and I could have just eaten him instead of my sushi. I wanted to dip him in the soy sauce. Conversation was great. We had not had any phone conversations since our first date just as I had said a few text messages. The date was easy almost too easy and I could not stop looking at him. I wanted this date and meal to be over quick and not for the same reasons that I had wanted my previous dates to be over....wink wink....This time around I wanted to see more than just a bicep. As our dinner winds down, now I am the one wanting the date to continue. I longed for him to ask me to go somewhere else. I would have sang karaoke, played pool, or thrown darts with this man. I was mesmerized. We walk outside and he walks me to my car. He asks me to drive him to his car which was around the corner. He gets in I start the car, I turn on some music and the car stays in park for some time. I feel like I am in high school again on this date and in this car. The defrost is needed...wink....wink.....let me just say it is one thing to see the "bicep" it is an entirely different thing to "feel" the "bicep"......wink.....wink......As I go to finally put my car in drive, my car dies. Let Me Show You My Biceps gets out and gets under the hood of my car and determines my battery has died. I suggested that I call my AAA because I have a silver membership. My date tells me he is better than a silver membership and that he can fix it. We go and get jumper cables and he jumps me off!!!! A kiss goodbye and I am off. I was on a high on the way home. Smiling from ear to ear.
All morning I think, am I only attracted to Let Me Show You My Biceps because of his outward appearance? Do I even like him as a person? He seems so flawless on the outside but what about the inside? Could I see myself growing old with him, laughing with him, just being with him? Would I miss him during the day because of the words that he speaks or because of how he looks. Why are we so consumed with what a person looks like, how much they weigh, and the size of their biceps. Those things do not sustain a lasting relationship. It goes deeper than that it is about a person's heart. Now I will leave you with this, it is almost 5pm the next day and I have not heard from my date. No after date text or call......guess we will explore that one later.
~ONWARD
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