On this particular blog I am not blogging about a date but about dating in general. I want to define what dating is in 2011. I think dating is so different for so many people. And you cannot have a healthy dating situation if who you are dating does not define dating the way that you do. I am on this quest to date and to find someone. I am not trying to sleep around and have sex with everyone that I date. What is crazy to me, is that some people out there think that dating does mean sleeping with multiple people. They think that the best way to get to know someone is by sleeping with someone. I have had over 3000 men view my profile. I have had so many winks and emails that I am exhausted. And what is sad is that most of these emails and men only want to get in my pants. The emails that I have received are so sexually driven, I wonder what is your problem? Do not put that you want a "Longterm relationship" on your profile and then only want sex. But in today's society people have mixed up sex with dating. I do not want a "one and done" I want to be with someone who truly wants to be with me for me. I would rather spend my life alone with my family and friends than be in an un-happy un-healthy relationship.
If you meet a person and you connect on every level. You just fit, you are perfect in every way together, then why would you want to search for someone else? Is that called being selfish? When you are dating and you find that person who you want to be around, why do you contine to date other people? Is that also part of our society, that we just want more more more? And by more I mean multiple partners? How can you really find and get to know someone when you are also getting to know 4 other people at the same time? It should be so simple. What happened to boy meets girl, boy likes girl, boy wants to be in a relationship with girl? What it has turned into is, boy meets girl, boy likes girl, boy wants to sleep with girl, boy wants to date and sleep with other people while also dating and sleeping with the girl he likes, boy wants to keep all the girls around so he can pick who he wants to date. Well, I will tell you this.........I am in control and I am not going to wait around for someone to pick me. I pick ME!!! I know I deserve someone who is honest and true and loving. If it takes me 30 more years to find it, I will not settle for someone who is not settling with me!!!! Be true to yourself and love yourself. Be strong and know in your heart you were meant for something better!!!
~ONWARD
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