Wednesday, November 9, 2011

The Never Ending Date...............

My Saturday date was only suppose to be a quick little hike.  We had decided to meet at my favorite place to hike.  I really liked talking to The Never Ending Date, I felt that we had a great deal in common and we were on the same page about many things in our life.  So we met Saturday morning at 10am.  The moment he stepped out of his car, I knew I was not physically attracted to him.  But I had to work off all these date meals so off to hike we went.  We hiked for about an hour and a half at a very fast pace.  We talked about everything, about our families and our jobs.  We talked about past relationships, really anything and everything.  After the hike was over, I was tired and just wanted a shower but The Never Ending Date had other plans.  He wanted to grab some lunch and to be honest I was a little hungry so why not.  We landed at this great little taco place and did have a good lunch.  It was a beautiful Fall day and the conversation was great.  While at lunch I told him that I was meeting a gal pal for dinner and a movie.  He stated that he too had plans and that was cooking for his family that night.  Our lunch was over and we parted ways.

I head home and within minutes he starts texting me, telling me that he enjoyed our time together, wanted to see me again soon.  I went through my afternoon and had dinner with my gal pal.  During my dinner, The Never Ending Date started texting me again asking what I was doing and if he could see me after dinner.  I explained that we were hitting a 10pm movie and he asked if he could "tag along".  I said sure because I thought he was joking, but guess what....he was serious.  He asked where we were going and what we were going to see and BOOM The Never Ending Date was there.  So there we sat in the movie, me, my gal pal and The Never Ending Date.  After the movie we parted ways AGAIN......

The next morning I received this text:
TNED:  Good morning beautiful! I am off to Sunday school and church.  Let me know if you would like to meet for the 11am service (he told me which church), would love to sit with ya! :)

Me: No response.

Now, what this man does not realize and it is not his fault, is that I have to get in 30 dates in 30 days and I cannot waste another entire day on him.  I did not feel that we connected and to be honest I want a guy that respects my time with my gal pals.  Because your girlfriend's are the people who get you through your 30 dates and who listen to you when you are heart broken.  My gal pal's are so important to me and I need a guy that understands that and allows me to have that time.

~ONWARD

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