So on Wednesday I was eating lunch with a girlfriend and I receive a text message from Sweet Little Coffee Date part 2. Now if you will remember on Monday I had a great little coffee date that got my Monday started off to a great start.
SLCDP2: Did you get a hike today? I am going to hike today around 4pm if you want to join me.
Me: Sure, see you at 4pm.....
I arrive with my belly full and on time. I see him and I just smile. I think I may like this guy. We started on our hike and talked non-stop for the next 2 hours. We talked about our family and my kids. He talked about his family and his ex-girlfriend's. We talked about church and about our belief's. He then asked some very personal questions that had to do with financial stuff. I should not have told him the information that I did. He then starts to tell me how much he wants a family and he does not have kids of his own and that we would really like children. I did not know what to say to this. I am finished having children. I have two great boy's and that is enough for me. I love my kids, but I do not want anymore. Sweet Little Coffee Date Part 2 really wanted a family of his own. This was something I knew may happen at some point. I knew I may meet a guy that wanted children of his own and I already knew I was finished having children. So what do you do? I like this guy and now not sure what to do. We end our hike and say our goodbyes.
SLCDP2: I just want you to know that I have plugged your name in my phone so I will not confuse you with any other (insert my name here). Thanks for being so forthright with everything.
Me: No problem....My life is an open book.
SLCDP2: Let's go out again and see if we can get to know each other. The physical part is not a prob for me!!!
Me: ;)
I really like this guy and would love for it to continue, but we are on two different pages in our life. He has never been married and really wants to get married and have children of his own. I have been married and have two great children and feel I am finished having children. Will I get married again? I don't know. I don't want this guy to miss out on having a family of his own, I don't want him to miss out on experiencing what I did with my two little one's. This is a tough situation to be in. What do you do with a guy that you like but the two of you are reading out of two different books?
~ONWARD
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